good golly

sometimes life will give you situations you dont want to deal with, things that you hope will never come up, well that happened to me just now. there are going to be certain situations that you just have to nip in the butt for everyones sake. i just had to tell my roommates that their behavior just wouldn't fly and tried to come to them as a friend rather than a mother. i don't think i came off that well and in fact i think they may lose a little liking for me but in the end i feel better and the situation will hopefully be taken care of. i can't be anyones mother out here but my own, and i can't offer help where its not wanted but i just need to try and do the best i can and be a good example. i need to slow down in life sometimes and just relax. not be so quick to take offense like everyone else.